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While I sit here..

While I sit here eating bagels with cream cheese and drinking coffee too fast, it is 6.30pm somewhere in the world. Someone, somewhere is playing hip-hop loudly while getting dressed for a third date. Someone is tumbling out of bed with a crick in their neck and promising to restart yoga from tomorrow. Someone is wrapping up six peanut butter sandwiches, four with jelly and two without, and putting them into paper bags for the kids’ post-football snack. Someone is trying to log on to skype and is hoping that hovering over the “Forgot password” link will help them remember it. Someone is uploading a picture of themselves with someone else on Facebook and hoping that someone else entirely will see it as evidence of having moved on. Someone is checking their wallet to make sure they have enough cash because she always forgets to carry some. Someone is falling in love with old jazz and is wondering if that makes them ‘pretentious’. Someone is drawing up a to-do list of weekend projects, starting with taking out the recycling. Someone is getting a tattoo. Someone is setting themselves a reminder to call the dentist tomorrow. Someone is wondering if it’s too soon to text. Someone is giggling while someone else is calling for another carafe of the house white, please. Someone is checking out someone else’s Facebook pictures and wondering if that’s who he’s dating now. Someone is jumping into the pool hoping to clear their head before the conference call. Someone is holding hands tentatively with someone else. Someone is falling out of love at the sight of another gray sock strewn across the floor. Someone is tip toeing around the kitchen, trying to make a midnight snack without waking anyone else up. Someone is bashfully admitting that they have two left feet but is dancing anyway. Someone is smiling and making a memory that they will remember with nostalgia, while eating bagels and drinking coffee too fast, many mornings from now.

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Of clean slates and firm resolve..

January, the month of abstinence, to make up for all the revelry of December, is also an excellent time to take stock of the 12 months that zipped by, and make plans for the next year. To help you along the road to firm resolutions, here is a roundup of the best New Years’ bits ‘n bobs:

Thoroughly delicious calendars from Design Milk :

Lifehacker has an excellent piece on the science behind New Years’ resolutions, and how to use it to keep yours: Set a reasonable number of goals (4 not 40), keep the goals very specific (I will lose 5 pounds, rather than a general “I will get healthier”), focus on the rewards (I will get to fit into that bottle green dress) and tell people in order to gain ‘social support’. And the New York Times has a longer piece with more detailed strategies and tips on how to keep your resolutions.

My resolution for this year is to improve my production : consumption ratio. I consume a lot of information on a daily basis, overwhelming amounts in fact. And despite my best intentions, writing about it, or pulling together disparate strands of thought into one cohesive piece is the one task that falls by the wayside. Case in point: I meant to write this post on the 5th of January, and it is now the 8th. But this year, I am aiming to write one blog post (very specific) a week, and have now put this out there on the interwebs, to gain ‘social support’, or at least the prospect of social censure from the few people who still read this blog (Hi Dad!).

If you, like me, are feeling overwhelmed by the sheer amount of information assailing you on a daily basis, the new year is a good time to wipe the slate clean and start afresh. Clear out the Instapaper reading queue, and aim to be more selective in the media you consume. Although focused on the US election, Clay Johnson has some valuable tips for all of us who are considering going on an “information diet”, if only to keep our sanity. Keep in mind that what you choose to consume has immediate consequence, not just for you, but for consumers everywhere:

So when you click on that article about Kim Kardashian over on the right-hand sidebar of that other website, your boss may not see you reading it, but you’ve made it more probable that she will read it. Your click is a vote, and with that vote, you’re not just saying to your media companies that you want to read it, but other people like you want to read it too. Clicks have a significant, and immediate social consequence.

If on the other hand, you’d like to make resolutions for other people, check out Resolutions for Good, where you can sign up to do something for someone else this year. Be it “Help my sister with her resume”, or “Volunteer twice a month”.

And finally, I leave you, with two of the most inspiring and thought provoking things I stumbled upon in 2011.

A manifesto to live by

And, while drawing up plans for the year ahead, some words to ponder, from Clay Christensen, a professor at Harvard Business School, from a speech to the HBS graduating class of 2010 : How will you measure your life?.

Think about the metric by which your life will be judged, and make a resolution to live every day so that in the end, your life will be judged a success.

Happy New Year!

Sunny Spring Mornings

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Happiness is equilibrium. Shift your weight. Equilibrium is pragmatic. You have to get everything into proportion. You compensate, rebalance yourself so that you maintain your angle to the world. When the world shifts, you shift.

- Tom Stoppard

 

Life is..

I make plans, dream little dreams, dream bigger ones.

Think of how I’ll be when I finally grow up.. Of all the things I want to do, places I want to see, people I want to be.

But life? Life doesn’t care so much about the five year plans and long-term goals.

Life is chilly Thursday evenings spent watching a week’s worth of House episodes.

Life is searching for a particular song on a Saturday afternoon and then listening to it all weekend.

Life is dirty dishes piling up in a tiny kitchen and finding one purple-mauve sock and never figuring out where the other one went.

Life is Sunday afternoons spent with friends and home cooked meals and taking back leftovers in Tupperware boxes.

As the man said,

Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans

- John Lennon

Ten Years Ago

  • I did not own a mobile phone. This was probably a good thing, since mobile phones were the size of a ham radio – not including the extendable antenna
  • The computer I used had a CRT monitor, as did my television
  • There was no Facebook
  • There was also no broadband. You could fire up the computer, go make a cup of tea, catch the headlines on the 10pm news, and it would just about be ready for browsing.
  • We caught the news once a day – at 10pm, and Breaking News really meant breaking news – not what Rakhee Sawant wore to a party last night
  • Reality TV meant Candid Camera
  • I was in high school, and had no idea what I wanted to be when I grew up (The latter still holds true)

I wonder what the next ten years will bring!